Created by child sexual abuse (CSA) and adult rape survivor, award-winning filmmaker/ cultural worker, and international lecturer Aishah Shahidah Simmons, love WITH Accountability™ examines how the silence around child sexual abuse in the familial institution plays a direct role in creating a culture of sexual violence in all other institutions-- religious, academic, activist, political and professional.
The Just Beginnings Collaborative, NoVo Foundation-funded project grew out of Simmons's personal incest healing work. Demanding a conversation with her divorced parents about their lack of response to her being sexually abused as a child, Simmons signed "Love WITH Accountability" in virtually every communiqué to them. In doing so, Simmons was emphasizing that her deep love for her parents could not shield their lack of accountability for the sexual violence she endured as a child and their subsequent 30-year cover up.
love WITH accountability™ examines how accountability is a powerful and necessary form of love needed to address child sexual abuse. (CSA). Its' focus is on tackling the global epidemic of child sexual abuse through the experiences, insights, and perspectives of diasporic Black child sexual abuse survivors and advocates. The project is culturally specific but accessible to many CSA survivors and advocates, all treated equally regardless of race, ethnicity, and culture. There is space for sharing testimonies and solutions for creating accountability for the violence. love WITH accountability is part of a community response added to, but separate from the criminal justice system.
As a survivor, Simmons is unwavering in her belief that every victim/survivor must take the avenues, which best support their full recovery and total healing. Her strongly advocating for alternatives to the criminal justice system is to deeply interrogate how and why calling the police is presented as the only solution to the violence victim/survivors face?
Addressing and eradicating child sexual abuse must be placed on national race, gender and sexuality agendas as a societal (global) epidemic that impacts ALL of us either directly or indirectly. love WITH accountability™ is building and creating space for diasporic Black child sexual abuse survivors and advocates to use their lived experiences, testimonies, and work as the foundation to co-envision how we can eradicate child sexual abuse.
Simmons officially launched love WITH accountability™ in 2016, thirty-seven years after she was first sexually molested by her paternal step-grandfather. She invited intergenerational group of twenty-nine diasporic Black cisgender women, gender non-conforming people, trans and cisgender men to join her on The Feminist Wire to explore what “love WITH accountability” looks like in the context of child sexual abuse. The group included survivors, advocates, and Aishah's mother, who wrote publicly for the first time acknowledging what happened to Aishah and the three-decades cover up.
Since the launch of love WITH accountability™, Simmons traveled extensively across the United Stated to engage in public and private intergenerational conversations. During her travels, realized that Simmons wanted and needed to go more in-depth than the online forum. Her forthcoming, edited anthology, love WITH accountability: Digging Up the Roots of Child Sexual Abuse is now available for pre-order for 25% off the list price at AK Press. It is also available for pre-order on Amazon and B&N. love WITH accountability will be released on October 1, 2019. The anthology features feature 40- diasporic Black, cisgender, transgender, gender non-binary, straight and queer, child sexual abuse survivors and advocates who use transformative storytelling to explore how we can disrupt and end the global epidemic of child sexual abuse without solely relying on the criminal justice apparatus that has historically and contemporarily harmed Black and other communities of color. The collection explores how we can disrupt and end in the inhumane epidemic of child sexual abuse, humanely.
The Fall publication of the love WITH accountability: Digging Up the Roots of Child Sexual Abuse will occur near the time of the 30th anniversary of the United Nations Convention on the Rights of the Child, and the 25th anniversary of the first pre-production meeting for NO! The Rape Documentary. The documentary film and the anthology are each groundbreaking, prevention resources that unwaveringly center Black survivors of adult rape and child sexual abuse. Each of these works focus on a population that is both historically and contemporarily marginalized and disenfranchised in the U.S. To commemorate the convergence of these milestones, Aishah Shahidah Simmons is partnering with the University of Pennsylvania, the African American History Museum of Philadelphia, Scribe Video Center and the Feminist and Gender Studies Department at Colorado College to host a national, intergenerational forum, t, From NO! The Rape Documentary to LoveWITHAccountability: Black Feminist Centered Forum on Disrupting Sexual Violence (#FromNO2Love) in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, October 31, 2019 - November 1, 2019. #FromNO2Love will both celebrate these milestones while lifting the long-term, and new survivor-led work that addresses, disrupts, and works to end child sexual abuse and adult rape.